Friday, March 27, 2009

I'm so loved...I think...

So tonight Talia gave a beautiful prayer in which she was so heartfelt in asking for her Dad to want to join the church and be baptized so he could baptize her. After the prayer was finished, I told her that I thought she had said some beautiful things. She tearfully said "I really want him to be baptized, because I want us to be all together in heaven...

"[see, the LDS doctrine is that lots of good people are in heaven - there are 3 'levels' of heaven, but to be in heaven as a family, that is, to be all together, the parents and the children need to be "sealed" together in the temple,
and of course to do that you need to be a member of the church; see mormon.org for further clarification - or just ask! ]

...and Talia continued saying ..."I want him to be with me in heaven because I kind of like him better than you."

I really had to stifle the laughter. She cracks me up. Not only that but she went on to say that the reason she likes Dad more than me is "because I'm a girl and I'm the firstborn." Not much birth-order theory here, is there???

It's good that I am secure enough (today) in myself and my parenting that she can say things like that without hurting my feelings. She's so funny!!!!

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Talia's Song

Talia wrote a song. She wrote the lyrics, and created the melody. I added chords to suit. Here she is and ain't it grand!

Lyrics are as follows:

It's snowing, it's snowing down from the sky
It's winter, it's winter and the ground is white
Snowmen, snowmen are being made
The trees are bare, the trees are bare,
Everything's covered in snow

Winter: December, January, February, March
Spring is coming
Birds are chirping, sprouts are blooming, time is changing, snow is melting
Getting warmer, school is one hour earlier

Then snow falls, snow comes down on it all
I'm so bummed the snow is coming down again
It's snowing, it's snowing down from the sky
Still winter, still winter and the ground is white

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Being All-Inclusive is an Art!

Lately, Talia and Malachi have been trying to include every possibility in their prayers when it comes to asking the Lord to bless others. Talia was including spiders for awhile, and there were some prayers that followed "please bless all the spiders" with "and all the reptiles and all the mammals and all the fish..."etc. etc. Malachi got in the habit of including all of our ancestors, but upon discussion with Talia decided to extend it to "all the people who ever lived before us." They used to talk about how if you blessed everyone in the world and everyone in outer space, you'd forget about the astronauts who were sort of in-between - you know, outside of the world but still enough within the atmosphere that they weren't in "outer space." Then we had a lot of astronauts included in our prayers.

Well, tonight I heard a prayer of maximum inclusion. Malachi said "please bless everybody in the universe, and everybody in any other universe..." and then he thought for a couple seconds and said "...and everybody who isn't in any universe!"

Afterward, he and Talia agreed that finally, this time there was nobody who was left out.

Friday, February 6, 2009

Three Kiddo Cutenesses


1. Talia asked me if I knew why she decided it was good to be in heaven. "Why," I asked. "Well, when I'm in heaven I get to have a dog, because of no allergies, and people there ask for things nicely instead of taking them." She looked meaningfully at Malachi.

2. I've been working with the kids on language - that is, appropriate exclamations of surprise, etc. In particular, I've been reminding Malachi to not use the expression "What the-" Maybe I see too many adolescents in therapy, but I just don't like hearing what's in my mind when that gets said. Anyway, Talia told me one day that she "heard Malachi say 'Holy Farming Animals' and I feeled proud of him in my heart."

3. Last night we were reading about Nephi and the Brass Plates and how he went to Jerusalem to get them, went back to where his family was camped out in the wilderness, and then got the instructions to go right back to Jerusalem to get Ishmael and his family. I asked the kids what they thought about making two trips instead of one, and we explored some ideas about why. Talia offered the following explanation: The reason they didn't do both at the same time was because they had to put down the brass plates first before getting Ishmael!

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Scrabble Awesominity


Brandon, his friend Josh, and mom and I all played Scrabble a couple weeks ago. I took a picture of the board, primarily because I wanted to save Brandon's word - diverges - forever. Guess who came up with the word "EGADS" ?

Incidentally, anyone who really knows Ron also knows that he can sleep anywhere. No need for a laying down position even. So it just cracks me up that when he relaxes after church, he doesn't even remove his tie...

Monday, January 12, 2009

Drawings


So my kids watched this DVD from the library about drawing faces, and check it out! The blue behind the face below (Malachi's) is a swimming pool so don't be like me and keep confusing it with lots of blue hair. Talia's face is above. They did this back in October or so, but it has really helped them draw faces much more accurately ever since. In particular, I'm noticing that the eyes are now getting drawn in the middle of the face where they belong, instead of at the hairline! Talia is the most interested in being an artist and she loves to draw all kinds of things. Thanks to my awesome sis Sarah for helping me with a new background. She's so clutch. Also, thanks to simplychicblogs.blogspot.com for the great background - there's the free acknowledgement!

Friday, January 2, 2009

Happy New Year!


First let's start with the holiday fun. We had our friends, the Axelrods, over for Hannukah and it was just too cute to get a picture of the children in front of the Christmas tree. And here's a video of them dancing to the Dreidel song which you can hear at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tY9ImWxjiug

We had a great time cutting down a tree together. We go to a place that is just down the street...literally. I think that this year we picked out a great looking tree. Unfortunately, I had a cold and sinus infection and nasty sore throat all month so the whole holiday thing was on the very slow speed this year. We decorated the tree in about four or five days, we did make cookies and hmm that was about it. Not much in the way of holiday traditions. I think the kids would tell you that they still had a good Christmas. We probably had one of the best holiday meals ever with a wonderful roast topped with carmelized onions, a few side dishes and some lucious ginger cheesecake for dessert (thanks to our friends the Youngs and the Andersons). Alas, no singing for me this year thanks to the throat. Maybe next year.
We were lucky enough to have Grandma Andrews come for a visit for the Christmas holiday. The kids loved hanging out with her. We gave her all kinds of new experiences including sudoko, kakuro, a huge big puzzle, some ginger ice cream, her first ever filet mignon, some fantastic Indian food at the same restaurant that Ron and I found our house at, yummy black bean croquettes (google for them at Eating Well), eggnog (Mike, you'll have to come visit me and I'll make you all the noggage you want), and from Brandon - a few episodes of Buffy! With all those new things it makes it sound like we were busy while she was here. Actually we just hung out a a lot without much in the way of activity. If you asked us what we did, say, on Friday the 2nd, I'd say "we did a puzzle." You might say, "oh and what else" and that'd be about it. A puzzle. Sure, I spent 14 minutes cleaning the bathroom but seriously, that's about all we did all day. Our brains used glucose. Yeah, that's it.

So since the previous post was about four months ago, here's the catch-up since the end of last August. Ready to go back in time to a warmer and less snowy time of year? The first day of school: it was very successful - the kids like their teachers and love taking the bus to school.Talia is in Ms Anderson's class again (they combine first and second grade classrooms and so they keep the same teachers for two years). Malachi has Ms Novak and he likes her as well. This year, Talia thought a great deal about what she was going to wear on her first day of school. Note the pretty necklace.Also, as you can see, the kids are all excited to pose for the camera, nearly any time or place. Yeah....I'd say that we're good on the self-confidence. That is, at least on most days...
Here's a fun fact about Malachi: He enjoys sleeping in a box. He started sleeping in this box about two months ago and it has become the "bed" of choice. Ron used to move him to his real bed after he fell asleep, but then we found a cute note on the door that asked Ron to not move him any more...so he doesn't. We can't understand how his body (and neck) can stand it. Last night, for instance, Ron found him curled up inside his box as the box was lying sideways underneath Malachi's little table. He crams all kinds of stuffed animals inside the box before he gets inside it and I suppose that's better than nothing. In this case, you'll see Malachi sleeping in the box inside his closet. We sort of woke him up with the picture...
During the day I found I can track Malachi's outside activities by "reading" his shirt. Brown for the dirt in his own digging hole, red for the berries he uses to make paint, green for the grass and orange for the carrots he eats right out of the garden (when he's not eating kale right out of the garden). Who needs soap?
Don't get me wrong, Talia gets plenty dirty too...but just not quite as voraciously. Here she is *not* getting dirty...
In October Ron and Malachi enjoyed the Father-Son campout (Malachi enjoyed the mud and water, Ron enjoyed the camera). Every year (almost) the campout is held at at the Black's pond (they are a family at church). This year the theme was meat, meat and more meat. As I heard it, the men and boys all decided that since it was an all-male campout, they didn't intend to eat any vegetables. What's the fun in a campout when the womenfolk make you eat your broccoli? Of course, no one can top Malachi (and Talia) for bouncing with glee when offered some seaweed. I'm not kidding - next time I'll take a video so there's proof. Also in October, the kids enjoyed Halloween. Malachi was a great batman and Talia was the cutest black panther you ever did see. We went to the church "Trunk or Treat" and then hit about 10 houses before heading home. There was plenty enough candy already! I'm happily at the point in my life where anything made by Nestle or Hershey's doesn't appeal to me in the least. Of course I tried a mini Snickers to just be sure...yup. No appeal. Give me a great Belgian chocolate any day. Seriously. Any day, you could give me a Belgian chocolate and that would be fine. Any old day at all. It could be a Tuesday...or a Friday...
Alrighty then. Back to the present...er, the past that is. November. We went to Virginia for Thanksgiving and spent Thanksgiving Day living it up in a waterpark. Of course we didn't take any pictures. I mean seriously, nothing. Incredible. We were so completely vacating in a relaxed way that we just hung out without a thought for documenting our complete lack of structure. So here's a video to make it up to you...Talia dancing to Van Halen with a bit of a cough here and there.
And just so you can rest assured that the children do more than rock out, here's Malachi studying the Family Home Evening manual. Isn't he handsome?? Actually, I'm sure what he's doing is teaching us the lesson for family home evening. Maybe soon I'll take a video of him conducting the music. He's great.